How we first met.?
I know, this is lame and pathetic. But still, i wanna talk about this. About how easily people forget how they first bump into each other, and eventually becomes friend. This was actually trigered by one of my friends, bila dia tanya, "how did we meet huh?". And my plain-malas answer was "i coudn’t recall. X brapa ingat la". Probably, many of us would forget the details, but it seems like that’s not the case for me. Personally, i still have the recollection of how i first start many of my friendships (and perhaps, foeships as well). Like they happened yesterday.fairly geeky huh?
I know, that for many, the beginning of a relationship is of lesser importance compared to how the relationship flourish. True, agaknyer. Tapi for me, everything must has its fundamental, and so does the relationships that i have. And the bases of which i erected the relationship, determines whether it will sink, or it will soar. I’m speaking from experience, honestly. Sebab i used to approach a person sebab i wanna hog the limelight, and things didn;t work out well. Too many pretenses and kepura-puraan. whereas, when i build a friendship coincidentally, the persons finally became my besties.
i know, that all of my friendships are unique. Ada begins sebab pergaduhan (i used to campak beg at one of my buds), ada bermula sebab Prasangka (i used to tot this person was a stuck up rich brat),ada sebab i nampak someone yg menarik untuk dijadikan kawan (i saw a girl giving kewl speech in PLKN), ada sebab I and him attended the same minggu bahasa and we were like "hey, aren’t u the one from before", ada yg mula sebab ejekan2 bodoh, ada sebab kita akan pergi to the same Uni and ada yg mula sebab i lebih gemar baca paper dari tengok berita.
I also know from experience, that sometimes, kalau i approach this person to be his good friend we would eventually become each other’s notorious nemesis and when i start a relationship dgn bergaduh, we would miraculously became best buds later. But not always laa.
I also know, that no matter what, I enjoy Cherishing my Friends!
August 15th, 2007 at 6:11 am
so..
do u still remember how we met?
hehe..
i first met u at mabec’s office
i only spoke to syarul because i knew him a bit and not really had the gut to talk to u because u r a bit cold..
after IB i sms u to ask bout accommodation application
when i said i hope we could be good friends, u didnt reply. I said to myself, “Mayb that is too much to ask for.”
August 16th, 2007 at 8:20 pm
Haha. of course i remember dear. U were the gal before i arrived kan, and i din’t reply ur sms ker? I tot i did. He he. And nothing is too much to be asked for la. Peace~